Random Thoughts – Pain


It’s been awhile since I blogged. I missed blogging so much.I was going through a very challenging time.I have been feeling very down and unmotivated. I was telling to myself, I will blog only when I am okay.

Then I realised, if I am sitting here like a victim and hoping that things will be alright and letting negative thoughts to control me, things will not change. I should get up and change my thoughts and take control of life.

I read this article by Robin Sharma on pain and I love what he shared.

Robin Sharma said : ” Open a journal, turn to a fresh white page and pour your pain or pour your confusion, pour your frustration out onto that page. It does something so powerful. It allows for a profound release of what you’re experiencing out onto the written page.

Here’s the key. If you repress and suppress your feelings of anger, of sadness, of disappointment, all of those lower energy feelings, if you keep them inside, they not only build up toxicity, and they build up resentment and frustration, but those are the very things that lead to inflammation that creates disease. 

Process the pain. Write it down and let it go. Don’t sleep with your pain inside you, release it.If you don’t feel like writing then talk to a good friend who understands you. You will feel better.

It’s normal to feel down, uninspired or sad, but we have choices. We can either let things control us or we control them. We can’t control situations, but we can control how we look at that situation. Let’s learn to look at things on different perspective.

Everything in life happens for a reason. If you are facing a problem, always remember the problem is there to make you stronger. If you think it’s a bad thing, it will only drain you and if you think the problem is there to help you grow, you will benefit from it.

The choice is yours.

Remember hard times are not forever. Let’s smile and let’s grow together.








~~~100 followers on my Blog ~~~❤️🧡💜🧡💚💙💛

On 25th March I woke up to this wonderful notification! I achieved 100 followers on my blog. I am sooo happy 🙂 Yeeeeeaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

I don’t know how to express my gratitude to all my followers. I am so grateful for all the 103 souls who clicked FOLLOW on my page. Your one click gave me courage, strength and motivation to keep on going. Thank you to those who took their precious time to read, like and comment, you guys are the best.

Last year I made a decision to focus on my blog, but I was feeling stuck and I had no clue on how to get people to read my contents. I spent so much time writing but I received no likes or comments.

I remember one day I was sitting sadly wondering why I have no followers, why no one wants to follow my blog. I remember talking loudly in front of the window. “Universe, please give me at least 1 follower, please I beg you, at least one.”

One day everything changed. I came across to this angel Keshie: https://keshiemuchai.wordpress.com/   I got inspiration from her 30-day blog challenge. She was also the first person who liked and commented on my posts. Since then I really started blogging seriously.

Slowly I got 5, 10, 15 followers and every time I see a notification on my WordPress, I jump with joy like a crazy person. 🙂


On the day I had 20 followers I was happily telling my sister and she said that she actually prayed for me that day to have followers. I guess she overheard me asking for followers. I was touched.

I am so grateful to be able to meet a lot of like-minded people here. Everyone here is so creative and talented. What a great place this is!

Thank You guys, thank you again.

Thank you so much for reading!

May God bless you all

Thank You. Thank You. Thank You.

With Love, Lashini  ❤






10 Lessons from Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich

  1. Everything that you desire will come to you when you’re prepared.There is a difference between wishing for a thing and being ready to receive it. See yourself as you will be when you already achieved your objective.

  2. One must realize that all who have accumulated great fortunes, first did a certain amount of dreaming,hoping wishing, desiring and planning before they acquired money.

  3. Discipline comes through self-control. This means that one must control all negative qualities.Before you can control conditions, you must first control yourself. Self mastery is the hardest job you will ever tackle. If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.

  4. Beat procrastination. Do not wait. The time will never be”just right.”Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.

  5. Be sure that you are worth more than you now receive.

  6. Genius wisdom is usually clearly visible through modesty and silence.Keep your eyes and ears wide open and mouth closed. If you talk more than you listen, you do not only deprive yourself of many opportunities to accumulate useful knowledge.

  7.  Tell the world what you intended to do, but first show it.

  8. Repeat million times –“Day by day. in every way, I am getting better and better” with full emotion and faith. Remember, without missing emotion and faith with your words, you will experience no desirable results.

  9.  It has been said that man can create anything which he can imagine.

  10. Never stop gaining knowledge.Those who are not successful usually make the mistake of believing knowledge acquiring period ends when one finishes school.

Leonardo DiCaprio Pencil Sketch~

Yeah! Finally an art after so long!

How much I missed drawing…I feel so good that I took the time to do what I love.It’s been ages since I touched my Art Pencils. I was going through a phase of a hard time. I was comparing myself to others and I was doubting myself. I felt like giving up my love for art.

But I decided to follow my heart and do it even if no one thinks I am good at it. No, I am not going to give up my passion for art! I believe it’s a gift from God and I will keep on doing it.

Yeay! I drew Leonardo Dicaprio ❤

Time taken: 8 hours

Media: HB, 2B,3B.4B,6B pencils, A4 paper,eraser, tissue paper

Had a bad day?

If you had a bad day…


No matter how bad things seem to be…

There is always something in you life that is going right..





Change your





Count your blessings…..

Things seem to be bad because of the thought you are giving it too…


You always have the power to change on how you feel about it……

Instead of saying I had a bad day and feeling terrible about it,

Ask yourself these questions :

What lesson this experience tried to teach me?


How can I learn from this?

A bad day might teach you the biggest and most important lesson you should learn.

Remember this,

You might just had a bad day, but not a bad life..

Life is all about learning and you have the power to choose to see the glass as half full. Work harder and keep on trying.

10 Lessons from : Ask and It is Given ~


1. Never get Jealous

When there is something you want and you are feeling unhappy that you do not have it, you are not in alignment, when you see someone who currently has the very thing that you desire and you feel jealous you are not in alignment. If you are jealous of your neighbour’s good fortune, the vibration of your desire and the vibration of your jealous feelings are different vibrations. The vibration of your being should match with the vibration of your desire.

2. You are a Powerful Energy

Who you are right now and what you are thinking right now, is causing a focusing of Energy that is very powerful. The only way to consciously deactivate a thought is to give your attention to another. Deactivate that negative feeling and active a positive one. You must know what you do not want and then change it to what you want.The vibration is not very strong, but if you continue to think about it, or speak about it, the vibration gets stronger.

Sometimes when you wanted something for a long while but you do not see any way for it to really happen.And then in the pleasant collection of the dream, you soften your vibration of resistance and then your desire can be fulfilled.

3. Ask yourself, are you in Alignment with what you want.

When you ask its always given, but you must be in vibration harmony with that you are asking for before you can let it into your experience. Once you are aware of the power of your thoughts and you have the ability to allow in the things that you desire.When you stay aligned with your energy system, you always in and somebody else does not have to lose for you to win.

4. When you Ask its always Given.

Every question is answered, Every desire is given. Every prayer is answered. Every wish is granted. All desires are answered, all requests are granted, and no one left unanswered, unloved, and unfulfilled.

When you believe something, it’s on its way.  When you fear something, it’s on its way.

5. Be Aware of what do you want and what you don’t want.

As long as you are more aware of what you do not want regarding this situation, what you do not want cannot come to you.  The more you push against unwanted things, the more you are inviting unwanted things into your own experiences. You have the ability to place your attention wherever you decide, so its possible to distract yourself from something unwanted and put your attention upon something wanted.

6. Change your Thought and think differently

If you continue to focus as you have been,  to think as you have been, and to believe as you have been, then nothing in your experience will change. the reason you feel stuck is that you are continuing to think the same thoughts and things are changing. If you want things to change, change your thoughts about things.

Within 17 seconds of focusing on something, a matching vibration becomes activated and in 68 seconds, the vibration is powerful enough for a manifestation to begin.

7. You are always sending Vibrations.

Every time you appreciate something, every time you praise something, everytime you FEEL GOOD about something, you are telling the Universe, ” More of this, please.”

8. You are a Magnet

Like a magnet, you are attracting thoughts, people, events, lifestyles and everything that you are living.When you see things as they are, you attract more of the same. But as you see things as you would like them to be, you attract then as you would like them to be. Spend a little bit of time, every day, intentionally attracting into your experience good health, vitality, prosperity and positive interactions with others.

9. Your Feeling is Everything

When you feel bad, you are in the process if attracting something that will not please you. You do not have to be abundant in order to attract abundance, you have to feel abundant.Feel the feeling of having it now.

10. Meditate

Because you have already been asking, now, during your time of meditation, you have stopped the resistance that has been holding it away and you are now allowing your desires to flow into your experience. If you meditate regularly, you will become quite sensitive to the way the higher frequencies feel within your body.

~ Ask and It is Given ~






















Liebster Award

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Hello friends!  I am so happy to be nominated for an award again 🙂 This is my 3rd  time receiving an award! WOW!

I am nominated by  https://paresh7263.wordpress.com   

Thank you, Paresh for nominating me 🙂

The Rules:

  1. Create a new post thanking the person who nominated you, links to their blog. Include award graphic.
    2. Answer the questions provided.
    3. Make a new set of 11 questions for your nominees to answer.
    4. Nominate 11 others and share your post with them so they see it.

My nominees are :

  1. https://readandsurvive.com/ 
  2.  https://kenslitepen.wordpress.com/ 
  3. https://raeleighreads.com/
  4. https://authorritikpandeyblog.wordpress.com/
  5. https://munaisreading.wordpress.com/
  6. https://poojasaxena14.wordpress.com/
  7. https://deesdatingdiary.com/
  8. https://lrisar.wordpress.com/
  9. https://adorageek.com/
  10. https://ankandas.wordpress.com/
  11. https://romanticshayri.wordpress.com/


My 7 questions are:

  1. Talk about yourself, where you are from and what do you normally blog about.
  2. What is your favourite thing about blogging? What made you start a blog and motivates you to write?
  3. What do you think is your biggest achievement so far in your life?
  4. Name one thing that is happening in the world right now that you wish you could change.
  5. What are your favourite songs, music or books?
  6. What would you do if you had one million dollars?
  7. Name a person who you look up to/ inspires you.
  8. What is your favourite food?
  9. One bad habit that you wish to change?
  10. What does your perfect day look like?
  11. What is your special talent?


My 11 Questions are :

  1. What have you always wanted? Did you ever get it?

I always wanted my own shelf full of books, finally, I have it and I am so happy 🙂

2. Best compliment you have received?

The world needs more people like you.

3. What question do you hate to answer?

Errm, I really hate answering maths questions…..Please don’t ask me any maths questions.

4. What type of music do you listen?

Mostly melody songs and I love the songs that have heart touching lyrics.

5. Are you a religious person or not?

I am not that religious, but I am a spiritual person.

6. Do you smoke?

NO! and I dislike smokers

7. Which is your favourite whiskey brand?

I don’t drink alcohol.

8.Where’s question 8 Paresh?

9. Which cartoon character do you resemble the most?

hmm, it’s a tough one. Can I say Cinderella? hehe..because I believe in magic and miracles like her 🙂

10.What is your biggest fear?

The Fear of failure.

11. Do you like award nominations?

   Yes. I am just happy every time I receive an award. It’s an honour and I am grateful.